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First of all, it should be noted that compliments are given not only to girls and beautiful words They are said not only to beloved women - they can and even should be done by men.
In fact, guys love compliments just as much as girls, but gentlemen receive them much less often, at least girls give compliments to their favorite guys much less often than vice versa.
A good, beautiful compliment significantly increases a man’s self-esteem and strengthens self-confidence, so this psychological “vitamin” is necessary condition for a good relationship with your loved one.
Unfortunately, wives (civil and official), as well as seemingly loving and caring, seemingly affectionate and gentle girls, speak kind and beautiful, necessary and important words to their dear life partners extremely rarely and not always accurately.
But we women are always ready to criticize our partners and do it often, a lot, tastefully and without reminders. And then they wonder, abandoned wives, why their husbands abandoned them and left the family for other girls - more joyful, cheerful and positive, who not only know how, but also know how, and actually compliment the guys with all their hearts and souls.
If your beloved young man is still close to you, but your love-family relationship already leaves much to be desired, it’s time to resort to the art of giving compliments beautifully.
After all, this is not just your boyfriend - he is a brave and courageous hero, a caring gentleman, a generous knight or a gallant gentleman who can make you feel like a princess - and all thanks to a skillfully made compliment, a couple of well-timed and beautifully spoken words to your beloved.
In order to cheer up a person with the best compliments in the world, you need to understand what men and women love different types"praises".
For example, a compliment that is guaranteed to please a girl is almost guaranteed to offend or confuse a guy. Now I will dwell on this in more detail.
The male rule of an excellent compliment is that if you want to compliment a man, you need to emphasize and accentuate his “masculinity” in every possible way.
Men are very sensitive to criticism and very quickly recognize insincerity, flattery and lies, so try to avoid showering your beloved guy with “empty admiration” that is not backed up by anything.
That's why say only what you really think, - do not overload your beloved with untruthful words that lead away from sweet and sweet conversation to dishonest praise, because he will definitely feel it... And maybe he will take revenge on you, or, even worse, he will stop trusting you.
How do men react to compliments?
Imagine that you called your loved one a “real gentleman” - and he will begin to open all doors for you and will try to justify such high trust, will try his best to behave like a really well-mannered and polite young man. Inspired, by the way, by your beautiful words and your belief that he really is such a wonderful knight!
Aphorism about COMPLIMENTS
Compliments to a girl: The ability to accept beautiful compliments from men
If you thank your boyfriend or husband for his kindness and generosity, care and affection, love and good attitude, he will always want to give you more and more in order to be worthy of your kind and gentle words, thanks and high marks.
If you like loving woman or dear wife, you call your beloved man “talented” and “skillful”, he will want to move mountains and dry up oceans for you, he will try to do as much as possible and as best as possible for you.
Therefore, instead of criticizing your loved one, give him sincere appreciation and say a good, kind compliment from the heart.
And the most important rule on how to give a compliment to a man so that he remembers it for the rest of his life: your words must be sincere and you need to praise for a specific thing - say who the author of the compliment is (you or someone else), what exactly you are praising for, why, note how exactly he did something cool.
Give a compliment from the heart so that your compliment is heartfelt, sincere, honest and deserved.
Speak the words kindly and gently, in a pleasant, sweet voice, talk about your love and how you appreciate your beloved man as often as possible.
And if you still have to express your dissatisfaction with your husband or boyfriend, then instead of criticizing and scolding, it is better to first tell him what is already good (give him psychological candy), then just tell him what could be improved (suggest changes in his behavior for the better ), and then say again that it’s already good (give me the candy again).
Now, let's look at the list of 100 compliments to a man.
100 of the best and most beautiful words to the guy you love and with which you can decorate his life, making it more pleasant, easier and inspired:
You're so clever!
You have such big muscles - just iron cans!
You are a very sincere person.
No one has ever understood me and no one understands me like you.
Yes, dear. Of course, beloved.
My dear, I'm sure you can do it!
I am sure that you will find the best solution.
Only you understand me!
You will succeed - I believe in it, I just know it.
You are so handsome!
Wow! What biceps!
You are a very influential person.
My favorite !
You are the strongest.
Thank you for your affection, tenderness and care, my dear.
Gentle lion.
Caring.
Passionate tiger!
Smart, kind, strong - you are the ideal man.
I love you.
You are my hero!
Medieval knights are resting next to you :)
Stronger than her husband there is no beast!
You are the best lover in the world! I have never felt so good with any man.
I adore you.
What beautiful eyes you have.
A real man!
You are so kind, gentle, affectionate - I just melt in your arms, I become sticky and wet, like chocolate ice cream...
You are the best of the best !
Just my ideal!
I don’t know if there are guys cooler than you, but if they exist, then there’s definitely no one cooler and cooler than you!
Thank you for being someone I can rely on.
Next to you I can relax and feel like a weak woman.
You are very reliable - I feel good with you.
A reliable strong male shoulder is yours.
You are my wall, fortress and stronghold! I'm behind you - like behind a stone wall.
Just my fearless hero!
Well, you are brave!
Incomparable!
You are so charming.
Your charm is irresistible.
The embodiment of all my ideals.
Man-Perfection!
You have a very inviting smile.
Thoroughbred appearance, very aristocratic. Were any of your ancestors a nobleman?
Who can compare with you in sense of humor?
Mine and only mine...
You have an amazing sense of humor.
Next to you I always feel calm and protected.
You are a bright and multifaceted personality.
Next to you I can be myself, real.
Your charm is impossible to resist.
You are the coolest lover in the world.
Only you can give me such deep pleasure...
You are a very bright and non-trivial person, I always have something to talk about with you, you always touch on such important and necessary, interesting topics.
You are a great conversationalist.
Only with you I laugh all the time, you probably know what buttons to press to make me laugh.
Sometimes it seems to me that you know me better than I know myself.
You dressed so beautifully to seduce me and make me fall in love with you (again)!
With you, my dreams of happy love have come true!
With you I feel at home everywhere.
Your smile... it's something! Simply charming.
You are so funny!
You look very healthy and courageous.
This suit (T-shirt, shirt) suits you very well.
You are the most attractive man not only on Earth, but in the entire Universe!
I love your eyes, your forehead, ears, nose, lips, cheeks, fingers, arms, legs... I love all of you - thank you for choosing me... You made me the happiest woman on earth.
My love! I am a very lucky girl - I am very lucky that it is me who is next to you.
You're so groovy!
We still need to look for a more energetic and enchanting guy than you.
You have a big kind heart.
My amazing.
Brave, courageous, courageous - and at the same time a caring and gallant gentleman.
It's amazing how quickly you got over it!
It's amazing how quickly you responded to this difficult situation on the road - I would definitely be confused if I were you.
You are the best programmer in the world!
There is no more successful businessman in the world!
The most talented.
Cute!
How sexy you are!
Hot stallion!
And you are also creative, it turns out!
You look amazing in this suit.
You have a calm, reserved, laconic masculine style.
How romantic you are.
You understand me so well!
A real gentleman!
The best dad in the world!
I am sure that my husband is the most wonderful in the world.
I love you so much!
Next to you, I feel like a real Lady or even a Queen.
You cook better than me! Your omelet is the most delicious.
You are a born driver from God.
I'm so proud of you.
You command my sincere respect!
You amaze me!
You inspire me!
You are a cup of my favorite tea that I am dying to drink!
So, now you know how to compliment the man you love, and I hope that now you will often practice the art of saying beautiful words, delight, admiration and gratitude.
And a few more tips from a psychologist on how to correctly pour honey into a man’s ears so that he listens and asks for more sweets.
Both women and men need compliments to feel important and needed, to feel loved and appreciated. Even those people who claim not to care about other people's opinions still beam when they hear that someone appreciates a job well done or recognizes their achievements.
In our modern society, it is generally accepted that women need compliments more than men, that only girls need to give love through kind words and beautiful compliments, but this is actually not entirely true. For men, a kind word and pleasant thanks to their ears are sometimes no less important than for women.
Let's now get acquainted with the basic rules of affectionate and beautiful words to a guy and pleasant, gentle compliments to men. So, why and how to praise a man.
1. Compliment his sense of humor.
Compliments to a man - Beautiful words for a guy
Something as simple as “You are the funniest man I have ever known” can greatly elevate you in his eyes. Men love to be funny, they love it when their sense of humor is appreciated, and they feel great when a girl laughs at his jokes. If your lover is really good at humor, be sure to note his great sense of humor - leave a positive comment or witty review on it.
2. Ask your loved one for advice or ask for help
In this way, you will raise his self-esteem - by asking for advice you recognize that he is smart and you need intellectual help from him. And men are really great at making decisions and solving a number of problems. And if the advice or help is truly wonderful and effective, thank you!
3. His appearance
Evaluate his appearance. Praise your loved one, if he really looks cool, make a comment on this topic out loud.
“I love your green eyes” or “I adore your strong, powerful legs, you are a great runner” - such simple beautiful words about the appearance of the other half will make him feel like a Winner.
In fact, many outwardly confident business men have major doubts about their attractiveness, body type, or behavior. Therefore, well-deserved boasting will certainly increase his self-esteem and lift him to the skies.
4. Compliment a man for his real achievements
The secret is that if you share your man's success, then he wants you to recognize his achievements and appreciate them in verbal and non-verbal forms. Even if your boyfriend is modest and does not seem to like pompous words and odes addressed to him, he still wants you to notice, appreciate and celebrate his triumph with him.
If your knight got a promotion, won a race, made a million, or even just out-did his friends, use it as a reason to approve, good words, compliment.
5. Admire his strength
Yes, it may sound primitive, but guys still like to carry heavy bags instead of their beloved girl and change the tire of her car. At the same time, young people like it when their power and strength are noticed, their courage and generosity of a true gentleman are noted.
6. Adore his charm, charm
Guys love to hear and know that your family and friends respect, love, and appreciate him. If you are a wise wife, a smart girl, then with the help of a compliment to your loved one, you can cheer him up and convince him that he is the very best.
Just a throwaway phrase:
“You made a huge impression on my parents - you just blew them away, in a good way!”
“All my friends are jealous of what a cool boyfriend I have, everyone would like to be in my place”
can turn an ordinary boy into a national superstar.
7. Extol his exploits in bed!
It's no secret that men often identify with their masculine power. If your knight is wonderful in bed, just tell him about it, because this is the best compliment for a guy. Having pleased you once and received excellent feedback from you on this occasion, he will want to give you pleasure again and again...
8. Appreciate his intelligence
Compliment his knowledge of politics, economics, business, pay tribute to his professionalism, ask him questions on topics in which he is well versed, let him share what worries him. When your loved one sees your interest in something that he himself is interested in, it will strengthen your relationship and improve mutual understanding between you.
9. Say words of admiration for his professionalism
As much as we wives might sometimes not like to believe it, many men identify themselves with what they do and how they earn their living. Compliment the guy on his work, tell him that you are amazed by his professionalism, note what a responsible position he has, that he makes a great contribution to important and what people need case.
10. Be a little jealous
If a girl is just a little jealous of her life partner, then this increases his self-esteem and shows what a popular and sought-after friend he is. A little jealousy in the most moderate quantities will make him feel like a consummate man.
11. Do you want to give a man a really cool compliment? Praise him in public!
You shouldn’t say beautiful words to your loved one only in especially personal moments one-on-one - tell all your friends, dad and mom, talk about how good he is, list his advantages. This will not only flatter him, but will also prove that you really love him.
12. Compliment his dance steps
Men are divided into 2 groups - those who dance and those who do not dance. Those who don’t dance are courageous boys who don’t waste their time on trifles - they dance beautifully with their bodies in bed. And those who dance at a disco in a nightclub should know that they move better than anyone else.
13. Believe in him and his successful future.
Guys are big dreamers and love it when the girl they love believes in him and supports his dreams, believes that he will really achieve anything, that he can achieve even his most daring goals.
Encourage your loved one to dream - listen carefully to him, ask clarifying questions, give a couple of compliments about his plans and future projects.
Men love those who believe in them.
14. Notice his gorgeous smile
Of course, he has the most charming and attractive smile in the world. Of course, he has the most open and inviting smile. You can giggle, laugh, and have intelligent humor with him.
15. And the best compliment to a man is to never put up with his absence as if it were due.
There is no need to impose yourself and be intrusive, you should not control your lover with authority. But if your loved one is not around, go to him love sms, they say, I miss you, I feel bad without you. Call sometimes and remind yourself. Ask more often: “How will I live without you?”, “What will I do without you?”, “Thank you for being in my life.”
Every man wants to know that he plays the most important role in the life of the woman he loves and loves him dearly.
I hope that now you not only know how to praise a guy with affectionate, gentle, pleasant words, but that you will actually use them in daily communication.
A compliment is life-giving water for the flower of your relationship: the more often you water it, the more beautiful the flower of your love!
Molchanova Tatyana
What a sin to hide? All strong women (and in our time it is simply impossible to be otherwise) dream of a strong shoulder - a man who (voluntarily!) will take on at least part of life’s burden. The main questions for any of us: are there such representatives of the stronger sex in general and where can we get them?
Everests of reality
Alas, upon closer examination of males, it turns out that even the most successful in their careers, brutal, charismatic, pumped up in the gym and who have earned decent money, do not in any way match the bright ideal of the other half of a strong woman.
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Because all they have to do is reach the threshold of their home, throw their briefcase in the corner and take off their business suit, and they turn into an ordinary man who, as expected, is dissatisfied with everything: his bosses, the dollar exchange rate, traffic jams, slush outside the window, and most of all most importantly - with his woman. She can't do anything and looks terrible! The trifle that you also just got home from work and are tired as hell will not be taken into account! Never!
Himalayas of patience
The only way for a strong woman to create the illusion of charisma in her man is to constantly talk about his irresistibility, intelligence, pragmatism and charm. And the more often these praises sound from your lips, the more willingly a man will begin to believe them and, which is incredible, but true, become the desired ideal.
Remember how the intrepid Scarlett O'Hara from Gone with the Wind was indignant: well, why, in order for a man to get married, does a girl have to pretend to be a total fool? And therefore, the wise nanny explained to her, they are afraid of smart women. Having heeded the instructions, the green-eyed beauty so deftly flattered to her gentlemen, who walked down the aisle many times.
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Difficulties of camouflage
Yes, of course, pretending to be a less successful blonde who is completely unadapted to life is a difficult task. But in each of us lives for real great actress. So why not use these abilities for your own good? Provided, of course, if you see in the man next to you good potential for modeling a macho man with whom you are not ashamed to show yourself to your friends.
Therefore, you should not advertise your career successes to your new gentleman or talk to him about GDP and rates on commodity markets.
My employee Katya, although she does not have a Hollywood appearance or an ideal figure, is always surrounded by a sea of fans who are ready to go to the supermarket for her sake.
“Yes, they are all fools,” she laughs among her friends. - But look at him as if he is the only man who shook you in bed. Everything else is the writers’ imagination.”
Your own Pygmalion
It was only in the myths of Ancient Greece that Pygmalion blinded himself to the tender Galatea and breathed his soul into her. In life, everything is quite the opposite: you want to be close strong man- educate him from scrap materials. They certainly haven’t brought anything else to this planet!
Raising macho
In many ways, the selfish psychology of our men is shaped by...maternal love. Where does a macho man come from if, until the age of 30, a mother runs around her son like a presidential guard, carries bags, cooks only herself and does not allow her child to wash his socks?
